YOUR journey belongs to you & yours is special & originally created by YOU for just YOU!!!

You are your own creator.... embrace your creativity, originality, diversity,  & individuality.
Love WHO you are, from the inside out &,  if you don't already,  learn to love the person you are or WHO you have grown to become, 
 Look deep within,  &  love yourself the way NO other WOULD or COULD!!! 


The greatest gift of life....
WHAT an amazing roller coaster & 
WE ALL get to ride! 
This ride has got to be the best.  
It's the tallest, & the fastest. 
The highest peaks & with the lowest drops 
There will be times it seems like it goes tooo fast,  almost as a lightening flash. 
these are the times you want to last,  but now their just memories in the past. 
You will hear the sounds of thunder crash, all awhile the lights will flash.
ppl cry cause humans pass, while the other side they sit n laugh. 

This is how your emotions are cast
There's happy n sad there's good & bad,
There will be great joy even at times you may think you were mad.  
 & precious bliss, even the times you think you've missed.
Stay your upbeat cheerful self & make sure you take care of self...
Don't you know? 
#healthistherealwealth ?


Caution:
This ride might push you through the darkest tunnels 
leaving your lips to scream & mumble 
Then your stomach starts to ache & grumble,  all because your insecure fumbles, leaving your heart crushed & tumbled, Until you finally cave in & crumble.  
You feel like noone seems to care that you are living your worst nightmare
You think back, this was all a dare 
Your in a trance or more of a stare n now your screaming it's dark down there
These upside down n humongous loops
Spinning round n round like holla hoops

You don't kno how you'll make it through
Just keep the faith n you'll be kool 😁✌

You might NOT know how you will make it through.  These upside down & humongous hoops
Just keep the faith & you'll

   
Warning: 
You have to work to change your thinking, as  you kno it sure is stinking... 
The right decision wouldn't leave you drinking 
That shit there will leave you sinking 
N that's not a life for a healthy living.  






forever, you don't see any chance of it ever getting better. 




eeing the light. It can have you going through the roughest & toughest twists, & turns, that will spin you dizzy.  




The corkscrews will have you twisting through, 

 this will pass 
you have to go through just 
so you can make it across the top just so you can get to the other side.  
Your mind can bear to even imagine this experience butt.... GUESS WHAT? 
YOU didn't realize you were already standing in the line. 
Say your prayers before your leave
 & always remember to give THANKS for all the beautiful blessings that were specifically designed for just YOU.  






The gift of life will take you on the biggest, fastest, highest, ride with the most spins,  turns, corkscrews & 
& enjoy the biggest & baddest roller coaster ride   Life is the best roller coaster you will ever ride on... 
It might bring you up before it drops you down, speed you up before it slows you down. Take you through a dark twisted tunnel is just a test to see if you crumble. 


& a bit of my roller coaster ride  and how it ended up being a road trip pretty much around the entire United States.  Throughput my travels I enjoyed a bit of 4 different states while traveling around the US. I have went all four seasons of the weather. It was hot, then it was cold, then others were warm & some others were chilly & breezy.  
Drove through snow & ice, with a few inches on the ground & the next was a beautiful sunny day for the beach.  I got to explore various terrains which I had never been through in my 47 yrs here on this earth,  I can say I have been a traveler for as long as I can remember... & I love each passing phase of my journeys.  They weren't ALL good, & weren't ALL bad either.  
Life is what WE make it, I agree with Forrest Gump momma.  
Life is like a box of chocolates,  YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR GONNA GET.  
You cannot have 1 without the other.  
We must have good, with the bad,  as darkness & light.  The sun & the moon.  It's all about how the stars in our great big galaxy align.  
There is always balance and life is gonna happen no matter what.  So it's the way we react to a situation at that specific time which will determine your later days to come.  What matters is how you deal with it,  
We are ALL product of what we have absorbed as children,  & in yrs of growing & learning.  
We are kings & queens,  prince's & princesses. 
God will take us through our trials & tribulations to help us gain knowledge,  wisdom,  & understanding that teaches us how to deal with that situation if it ever comes across our path again.  
There are no rules,  YOUR RULES are the only 1s that apply to you personally.  
Just as there aren't any guarantees in life except to die.  Nothing is permanent 
& everything in this life is ONLY temporary.  

Success is NOT a destination, BUT RATHER YOUR OWN journey through life. What is success? Who defines your success? I know people who believe success comes from a certain amount of a dollars you have in your bank account.

& a bit of my roller coaster ride  and how it ended up being a road trip pretty much around the entire United States.  Throughput my travels I enjoyed a bit of 4 different states while traveling around the US. I have went all four seasons of the weather. It was hot, then it was cold, then others were warm & some others were chilly & breezy.  
Drove through snow & ice, with a few inches on the ground & the next was a beautiful sunny day for the beach.  I got to explore various terrains which I had never been through in my 47 yrs here on this earth,  I can say I have been a traveler for as long as I can remember... & I love each passin

Sunflower day

Be someone's sunflower today... life is short,  we as humans get overwhelmed with all the hustle & bustle in life, many distractions nowadays.  

It's ok to smile,  share a hello, that simple hello may be the only 1 they encounter throughout the entire day.  We never know what the next person is going through.  It cost nothing to brighten another's day.  It will make you feel good too. 😉 

FABULOUS I AM. COM / Facebook page too

This is my LOGO ... My BRAND...

My name is TOBEY PICA

I am the creator / founder of fabulous I am. 

This is WHAT MY God instilled in me to share with you.  

I came up with a acronym for FABULOUS....
FAITH
AND
BELIEF
UNITES
LOVE
Of
UNDERSTANDING
SELF 💖.

I wanted to create a platform that was designed by a woman for WOMEN who want build & empower WOMEN. 

We ALL have a purpose here in life.  

It's up to us to realize & recognize our worth.  We determine how others will treat us by how they see we treat ourselves.  As women too many times we are being knocked down or allowing others to determine how we are going to live,  act, treat ourselves & be treated.  We accept  living in toxic environments, whether it's the neighborhood we live in, home life,  work,  kids,  sometimes the so called family, friends or lovers are who we get treated poorly from the most.  

We as women are strong queens!! 

Somedays we just simply CANNOT see our true value / worth when there's so many other distractions going on around us.  

At times we can become so accustomed to them it becomes our normal.  We will stay,  in bitter situation.  I'd say some stay out of fear, comfort,  the thought of starting over again is a nightmare. The wrong reasons,  aka... the children, & others simply that's all they know.  Once you've felt displacement & uncomfortablity in your life,  we accept allot more than the average woman would. 

Most of it stems from our youth, and what we absorbed from our upbringing.   

I used to ask & question myself all the time.

What is my life's purpose?  

I've always been multi talented,  I have done allot of stuff, had many (JOB... JUST OVER BROKE), went to schools for trades,  started my own businesses. I was NEVER completely fulfilled.  

It took me many years & many tears for me to finally figure it out.  

Thank God I know now... 

There's no excuses, nothing holding me back,  nothing in my way to stop me.

I have had to many set backs to count,  I wouldn't even know how many hours of hard work, sweat, tears,  struggles,  name changes,  edits,  do overs,  deletes and everything else that comes along with being a self made, entrepreneur & building your own BRAND.

I will NOT give up! 

I am here to 

Motivate you,
Inspire you,
Push you & I'm sure some harsh words you might NOT have wanted you hear or face.  (you will probably WANT to give up)  but giving up is NOT an option.  

I want fabulous I am to be here for you to give you that extra UMP you need to keep pushing yourself with the dedication, determination & drive that you need to get you where your destined to go.  YOU can achieve ALL your dreams & goals, you can live the fulfilled life you always imagined.  Dreams do come true...
YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT TO SEE IT... Wayne Dyer 💖
We believe in YOU to help YOU believe in YOU!
Fabulous I am is here to build you up to become the best version of ourselves we can possibly be.  

You are ALL welcome to use this platform to share knowledge,  experiences,  mentorship,  networking, smiles, laughs,  jokes , or maybe a even tears. (Hopefully happy ones from accomplishments achieved) this is an outlet to connect, vent,  build relationships,  friendships, & business partners, 
Share plans or ideas.  Even just be A friendly face to make new members feel welcomed.  😁

REMEMBER: 

NEVER give up on your dreams & continue working towards WHATEVER is your life's purpose. 

YOU are YOUR greatest masterpiece.

Whatever is instilled inside you is designed specifically for YOU.  Show it off!

You can join our Facebook page too. ##fullfillyourlifespurpose  💖

FABULOUS I AM.... DANIELLE (KOTTON KANDI)

Today is a day to honor Danyelaa Johnson for being FABULOUS I AM!!! 

Danyelaa is an amazing woman, to start off, she is beautiful, smart, definitely has a sense of style and most of all a great mother.  Danyelaa at one time was overweight and she beat that battle.... for the past few years she has kept the weight off and has stayed in shape with her healthy eating habits. 

I am honored to call her fabulous, as that is what she is... 
Along her journey, she has accomplished many things, as she continues to move forward working on her dreams and goals. She has achieved success as a model as she is currently working on her own clothing line. One that is for men & women of all ages that are classy & sexy but also has an empowering appeal to it as well. This has been an inspiration from her late father who passed when she was just 10 years of age. His love for fashion remains a passion of her's to keep alive. Just as his name also reflects the name of her company & line. 

Although Danyelaa did not realize how much work is put into building your own brand and company she still believes in her dreams and is going to make it work, regardless of the roadblocks she may come across.  So she has started taking some small business classes to increase her knowledge. 
There is much work to be done when building your own brand and label and when you are first starting out you think you can do it alone but the fact remains it takes a team to build an empire. 

Danyelaa believes ( the number 1 thing you must do, believe in self)  & in her products as she is designing apparel, furniture, home goods, body products and more...  Her all time goal is to see her brand in all major stores/household's as she wants her son to enjoy a fantastic future to be able to live off her and her father's legacy. 
Go head gurl, that's def inspiring! 

That is pretty FABULOUS & that is why I am honoring you FABULOUS I AM!!!

FABULOUS I AM... TINA CHANDLER

I am absolutely pleasured to honor Tina Chandler for this week's FABULOUS I AM....
This woman truly deserves this... Tina is a personal trainer and professional body builder.

Tina has worked in rehab & as a massage therapist before turning Pro, but her real passion comes from empowering others, helping them see the "light bulb" go off within themselves so they can begin to make changes in their daily routine.

We are women and human beings so sure, she had some of her own battles and struggles, as any of us do, we start then stop, she was determined, she finally got over that hump & was able to take total control over her own body and eating habits. Once this happened Tina was able to take herself and career to the next level. Now she wants to enlighten everyone so they can feel as fabulous as she does! Tina claims it to be: FREEDOM!
I claim it as FABULOUS!!!

Tina also volunteers her time and talents with one on one training and coaching in every department of fitness, including nutrition to a number of clients who live with different disabilities, including Cerebral Palsy, MS, MD, Downs Syndrome, Spina Bifida, and more. Also donating time at events to raise awareness for these disabilities as well.

She has achieved and accomplished so much already. How do you top that?  Well, there's more. Some of her other goals include starting a family with her wonderful and amazing husband, Carl Ducena, and get back on stage to compete in the Olympia once again, and have the world witness the tried and true way to achieve fitness!

You are doing what you love & love what you do!!!
Thank You for being such an inspiration to others!
 stay FABULOUS I AM!


Tina Chandler, IFBB Pro Bodybuilder
SAG-AFTRA Actor
AllFit, LLC/Normal To Be Fit™

Email: chandlertina4@gmail.com

Website:
www.normaltobefit.com
 www.tinachandler.com

Social:
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FABULOUS I AM.... WENDY GETTENBERG

Today I am writing about this Jersey Girl a very strong woman. Wendy gets an honor today for being FABULOUS I AM.

She is over 40 beautiful, and in awesome shape.

This woman here creates her income from her passion which is fitness and nutrition, Wendy studied MSC sport and exercise psychology at Brookdale Community College so she knows what foods are good for you, a healthy way of eating, figuring a plan to incorporate a healthy lifestyle. She says when you eat whole foods it reduces many health issues and she loves to educate those on a daily basis about it.  Wendy also donates her time to those who really can't afford private or personal trainers. That's a great way to give back. Inspiration to others.

Although she does have another love and passion, that is for bully breed dogs, still and all she will rescue any type of animal those are just the ones she has the most love for. 

you can find her here and get more information about her training and schedule 

https://www.facebook.com/wendy.gettenberg