Sunday morning... Gratitude

Heylo great mernin to ya fabulous ppl out there.  Happy Sunday!!! 

Let's give thanks to our most high (whomever you consider YOUR GOD) (Knowledge IS power buttt with knowledge of self your unstoppable!

You must learn how to channel in with your conscience & subconscious being. So you can live the life you want to live. 

Being a multi talented artist actress writer & creator for many years I have had my share of 

J.O.B.S. (just over broke shit) & if you use that word or any other words speaking of yourself about being in lack of well then my friend,  please do not complain about it because that's all you will get!) More to complain about. 

Those are the facts. I had to learn over much time, training,  & practice to reboot my brain from being a negative thinker / complainer (pretty much without even realizing it).  It was just what I knew from being around it soooo much) to being positive & seeing the good in any situation instead of the bad 1st. One thing I always knew for sure I was different, always the positive one who did see outside the box, who did want to live her dreams. Instead of living a life of madness which only I am responsible for creating. 

So now instead of chasing a job I knew I had to build my own businesses. 

I was never 1 to go punch a clock or listen to a boss.  I am the boss! 

So I got out, leave to another state, I started over once again buttt this time It was away from home.  I was more mature & was finally able to find my peace within. 

Life around me was changing because my inner being was happy & felt very satisfied. I had also learned there's enough of everything out here in this world for everyone. It's only a state of mind. Knowing your own conscience being. 

THE GOD & CREATOR you are within yourself.  

Healthy eating & living with a positive mind, attitude & gratitude is the way to goooo.  

I did a lil backslide buttt I am ready to come back with full force. 

Because I do want to love the life I live & being a inspiration & help to others is what makes me happy! 

DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY! 

It will all come to you when you let it.

Your inner you will love you soooo much

Have a great day folks

Wishing you much peace n many blessings in abundance 2021!

Be fabulous today

#FabulousIAM 

#gratefulheart does create #miracles

starting my vocal... read my stories there 🤗

I looked into doing podcasts & different platforms to share my thoughts,  stories,  writings, information.  

I have come across plenty over the years,  buttt as technology & everything is evolving I never found the right 1 that I felt was user friendly & also able to earn a income from it. I found

Vocal a while ago buttt you had to have a laptop to create a account.  Sure I have a laptop buttt I was in the country & my service wasn't great.  Well I guess they upgraded cause you can create straight from your mobile now which is fabulous! 

Fabulous I am was something I created a few years ago buttt as soooo many things,  it just wasn't time yet. At that time I was creating women empowerment groups to meet up & network to empower each other.  

I was also selecting independent women whom I saw to be a inspiration to others & write about them,  their challenges,  their failures & successes. 

Things were going great,  buttt I guess MY

God still had a few things for me to go through before I could get to the next level. 

Life! A few more curve balls thrown in there,  with much more for me to experience to have better knowledge so I can be able to help another. 

I took a seat in the waaaaay back,

I wasn't working towards any of my real goals.  I was allowing them to slip away because of something so stupid & silly,  definitely not anything to give up a future over. I was going through alot & I wasn't happy because I do know WHO I AM & I know WHO'S I AM! 

HE IS I, I AM HIM! I am not 1 to give up! I 

am a dream chaser & getter. I started questioning myself, am I giving up? 

Creating my own lies to talk myself out of it. 

 Welp It's the beginning of a new year 2021

& I stood up to myself & said noooo I will NOT do this anymore! 

I have to do what makes me happy & what makes me happy is making others happy.  

I am building my fabulous I AM back up.

So I'll be looking for y'all to connect & network.  

Peace luv n happiness 🙏✌❤😅 

https://vocal.media/authors/fabulous-i-am

 

I looked into doing podcasts & different platforms to share my thoughts,  stories,  writings, information.  

I have come across plenty over the years,  buttt as technology & everything is evolving I never found the right 1 that I felt was user friendly & also able to earn a income from it. 

Vocal is something I looked into a while ago buttt you had to have a laptop to create a account.  

I guess they upgraded cause you can create straight from your mobile now which is fabulous! 

Fabulous I am was something I created a few years ago buttt as soooo many things,  it just wasn't time yet. At that time I was creating women empowerment groups to meet up & network to empower each other.  

I was also selecting independent women whom I saw to be a inspiration to others & write about them,  their challenges,  their failures & successes. 

Things were going great,  buttt I guess MY

God still had a few things for me to live through & experience before my time to share. 

YOUR journey belongs to you & yours is special & originally created by YOU for just YOU!!!

You are your own creator.... embrace your creativity, originality, diversity,  & individuality.
Love WHO you are, from the inside out &,  if you don't already,  learn to love the person you are or WHO you have grown to become, 
 Look deep within,  &  love yourself the way NO other WOULD or COULD!!! 


The greatest gift of life....
WHAT an amazing roller coaster & 
WE ALL get to ride! 
This ride has got to be the best.  
It's the tallest, & the fastest. 
The highest peaks & with the lowest drops 
There will be times it seems like it goes tooo fast,  almost as a lightening flash. 
these are the times you want to last,  but now their just memories in the past. 
You will hear the sounds of thunder crash, all awhile the lights will flash.
ppl cry cause humans pass, while the other side they sit n laugh. 

This is how your emotions are cast
There's happy n sad there's good & bad,
There will be great joy even at times you may think you were mad.  
 & precious bliss, even the times you think you've missed.
Stay your upbeat cheerful self & make sure you take care of self...
Don't you know? 
#healthistherealwealth ?


Caution:
This ride might push you through the darkest tunnels 
leaving your lips to scream & mumble 
Then your stomach starts to ache & grumble,  all because your insecure fumbles, leaving your heart crushed & tumbled, Until you finally cave in & crumble.  
You feel like noone seems to care that you are living your worst nightmare
You think back, this was all a dare 
Your in a trance or more of a stare n now your screaming it's dark down there
These upside down n humongous loops
Spinning round n round like holla hoops

You don't kno how you'll make it through
Just keep the faith n you'll be kool 😁✌

You might NOT know how you will make it through.  These upside down & humongous hoops
Just keep the faith & you'll

   
Warning: 
You have to work to change your thinking, as  you kno it sure is stinking... 
The right decision wouldn't leave you drinking 
That shit there will leave you sinking 
N that's not a life for a healthy living.  






forever, you don't see any chance of it ever getting better. 




eeing the light. It can have you going through the roughest & toughest twists, & turns, that will spin you dizzy.  




The corkscrews will have you twisting through, 

 this will pass 
you have to go through just 
so you can make it across the top just so you can get to the other side.  
Your mind can bear to even imagine this experience butt.... GUESS WHAT? 
YOU didn't realize you were already standing in the line. 
Say your prayers before your leave
 & always remember to give THANKS for all the beautiful blessings that were specifically designed for just YOU.  






The gift of life will take you on the biggest, fastest, highest, ride with the most spins,  turns, corkscrews & 
& enjoy the biggest & baddest roller coaster ride   Life is the best roller coaster you will ever ride on... 
It might bring you up before it drops you down, speed you up before it slows you down. Take you through a dark twisted tunnel is just a test to see if you crumble. 


& a bit of my roller coaster ride  and how it ended up being a road trip pretty much around the entire United States.  Throughput my travels I enjoyed a bit of 4 different states while traveling around the US. I have went all four seasons of the weather. It was hot, then it was cold, then others were warm & some others were chilly & breezy.  
Drove through snow & ice, with a few inches on the ground & the next was a beautiful sunny day for the beach.  I got to explore various terrains which I had never been through in my 47 yrs here on this earth,  I can say I have been a traveler for as long as I can remember... & I love each passing phase of my journeys.  They weren't ALL good, & weren't ALL bad either.  
Life is what WE make it, I agree with Forrest Gump momma.  
Life is like a box of chocolates,  YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR GONNA GET.  
You cannot have 1 without the other.  
We must have good, with the bad,  as darkness & light.  The sun & the moon.  It's all about how the stars in our great big galaxy align.  
There is always balance and life is gonna happen no matter what.  So it's the way we react to a situation at that specific time which will determine your later days to come.  What matters is how you deal with it,  
We are ALL product of what we have absorbed as children,  & in yrs of growing & learning.  
We are kings & queens,  prince's & princesses. 
God will take us through our trials & tribulations to help us gain knowledge,  wisdom,  & understanding that teaches us how to deal with that situation if it ever comes across our path again.  
There are no rules,  YOUR RULES are the only 1s that apply to you personally.  
Just as there aren't any guarantees in life except to die.  Nothing is permanent 
& everything in this life is ONLY temporary.  

Success is NOT a destination, BUT RATHER YOUR OWN journey through life. What is success? Who defines your success? I know people who believe success comes from a certain amount of a dollars you have in your bank account.

& a bit of my roller coaster ride  and how it ended up being a road trip pretty much around the entire United States.  Throughput my travels I enjoyed a bit of 4 different states while traveling around the US. I have went all four seasons of the weather. It was hot, then it was cold, then others were warm & some others were chilly & breezy.  
Drove through snow & ice, with a few inches on the ground & the next was a beautiful sunny day for the beach.  I got to explore various terrains which I had never been through in my 47 yrs here on this earth,  I can say I have been a traveler for as long as I can remember... & I love each passin

Sunflower day

Be someone's sunflower today... life is short,  we as humans get overwhelmed with all the hustle & bustle in life, many distractions nowadays.  

It's ok to smile,  share a hello, that simple hello may be the only 1 they encounter throughout the entire day.  We never know what the next person is going through.  It cost nothing to brighten another's day.  It will make you feel good too. 😉 

FABULOUS I AM. COM / Facebook page too

This is my LOGO ... My BRAND...

My name is TOBEY PICA

I am the creator / founder of fabulous I am. 

This is WHAT MY God instilled in me to share with you.  

I came up with a acronym for FABULOUS....
FAITH
AND
BELIEF
UNITES
LOVE
Of
UNDERSTANDING
SELF 💖.

I wanted to create a platform that was designed by a woman for WOMEN who want build & empower WOMEN. 

We ALL have a purpose here in life.  

It's up to us to realize & recognize our worth.  We determine how others will treat us by how they see we treat ourselves.  As women too many times we are being knocked down or allowing others to determine how we are going to live,  act, treat ourselves & be treated.  We accept  living in toxic environments, whether it's the neighborhood we live in, home life,  work,  kids,  sometimes the so called family, friends or lovers are who we get treated poorly from the most.  

We as women are strong queens!! 

Somedays we just simply CANNOT see our true value / worth when there's so many other distractions going on around us.  

At times we can become so accustomed to them it becomes our normal.  We will stay,  in bitter situation.  I'd say some stay out of fear, comfort,  the thought of starting over again is a nightmare. The wrong reasons,  aka... the children, & others simply that's all they know.  Once you've felt displacement & uncomfortablity in your life,  we accept allot more than the average woman would. 

Most of it stems from our youth, and what we absorbed from our upbringing.   

I used to ask & question myself all the time.

What is my life's purpose?  

I've always been multi talented,  I have done allot of stuff, had many (JOB... JUST OVER BROKE), went to schools for trades,  started my own businesses. I was NEVER completely fulfilled.  

It took me many years & many tears for me to finally figure it out.  

Thank God I know now... 

There's no excuses, nothing holding me back,  nothing in my way to stop me.

I have had to many set backs to count,  I wouldn't even know how many hours of hard work, sweat, tears,  struggles,  name changes,  edits,  do overs,  deletes and everything else that comes along with being a self made, entrepreneur & building your own BRAND.

I will NOT give up! 

I am here to 

Motivate you,
Inspire you,
Push you & I'm sure some harsh words you might NOT have wanted you hear or face.  (you will probably WANT to give up)  but giving up is NOT an option.  

I want fabulous I am to be here for you to give you that extra UMP you need to keep pushing yourself with the dedication, determination & drive that you need to get you where your destined to go.  YOU can achieve ALL your dreams & goals, you can live the fulfilled life you always imagined.  Dreams do come true...
YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IT TO SEE IT... Wayne Dyer 💖
We believe in YOU to help YOU believe in YOU!
Fabulous I am is here to build you up to become the best version of ourselves we can possibly be.  

You are ALL welcome to use this platform to share knowledge,  experiences,  mentorship,  networking, smiles, laughs,  jokes , or maybe a even tears. (Hopefully happy ones from accomplishments achieved) this is an outlet to connect, vent,  build relationships,  friendships, & business partners, 
Share plans or ideas.  Even just be A friendly face to make new members feel welcomed.  😁

REMEMBER: 

NEVER give up on your dreams & continue working towards WHATEVER is your life's purpose. 

YOU are YOUR greatest masterpiece.

Whatever is instilled inside you is designed specifically for YOU.  Show it off!

You can join our Facebook page too. ##fullfillyourlifespurpose  💖